I should not have to repeat myself ! A serious sub listens the first time.
He handles it .
He holds the standards.
He makes my life lighter,not heavier.
A weak man is ruled by impulse , ego,mood,and craving
A submissive man learns restrain. Discipline and direction

Thats y real submission does not make a man less masculine . It makes him less chaotic
More focused
More useful
More in control of himself.