My impression and experience as male escort:

My impression is that there is a lot of demand for this kind of service but most women are embarrassed and ashamed and also they judge themselves harshly . They overthink it, it is kind of embarrassing for them having to pay a man to have sex with them. I normally get comments like " I have never done this before". " I am having internal fights between my lust and desires versus my morals". Morality is the main stumbling block for most women. I’m not tempting women into doing something immoral. I’m offering an experience to adults who are already wrestling with their own desires.

My role isn’t just physical; it’s also emotional. I’m here to provide a space where one can talk openly, feel understood without judgment, and have someone to lean on while navigating that internal conflict. I am annoyingly take long to cum and even if I came I can put another condom an continue.

For many women, morality around sex is tied to:

Self-worth
Fear of being judged (even if no one knows)
Fear of judging themselves afterward

The role I am unintentionally playing:

A witness (“Someone will know this side of me”)

Women who eventually book usually do so when:

Feeling safe and not gonna be judged

First wrong assumption:

I had thought that I would be meeting a lot of single women but I mostly meet married women.

Second wrong assumption:

That I would be meeting ugly women who cannot get men the conventional way. Wow I meet a lot of gorgeous and stunningly beautiful women. Sometimes I pinch myself just to make sure its not that I am dreaming.

Third wrong assumption:

The couples that I am going to meet are going to be non black.

Key rule:
👉 Everything is discreet. Everyone is an adult. Everyone consents. Everyone can stop. The environment is nonjudgmental.

I know for women meeting a stranger that is me , can be scary, nerve racking and feel unsafe. The feelings are valid cause South Africa is not really a safe place for women that is why I am wiling to go to the ends of the earth to prove that I am legit. Being skeptical or hesitant is valid so you should not trust easily as result I would not rush you . I am willing to meet you halfway at a place you are comfortable with - also when you at my place, it is not straight to bed cause you are most likely not going to enjoy it cause you are nervous and the session is about you after all not about me. Lets sit and talk first

Legitimacy & Trust 🔒✨

Most women worry about whether a profile is real, safe, and discreet — and they should. I welcome that.

✔ Willing to meet at public place. A meet and greet without obligation to take it further. I am legit.

I understand that discretion, safety, and peace of mind come before anything else.
If you’re cautious, that tells me you value yourself — and I respect that.

I am here to entertain. I am here for the taboo and the forbidden. I am here for what society would consider strange, crazy or sick. The deep and the dark. One society would frown upon. I am here to fulfill fantasies. Everyone has their own deep and dark fantasies. I am here to help you live them. No judgement only encouragements.

Age groups:

Age is just a number they say. Kuguga Othandayo!
I have been with someone as young as 18. I asked her to come with her ID just for control.
I have been with with someone as old as in their 70s. Let me not say old but matured. She calls me Mntwanami or my child .

Average age groups I have been with:

20s, 30s and 40s. Mostly 40s.

Body Types:

All shapes and sizes are welcomed and celebrated here.

Body types I have been with:

Skinny to medium to cuddly . The big ones/Ositufuza are shy I guess even to meet a nonjudgemental escort - boring.

What I have done:

3 somes with 2 women
Cuckolding with couples
3 somes with my tag team partner and a woman
5 somes with my tag team partner and 3 women
3 some with my lady tag team partner and a woman. She enjoys eating another woman or getting eaten by another woman

What I have done to someone and allowed to be done to me:

Muffing - This is my favorite. I don't know what is about it but I love it.
I have allowed my female clients to give me a blowjob. I have a beautiful dick.
I have been sucked by a couple (Woman and a man). Some straight men have this fantasy.
Anal sex. I have come to realize that a lot of women love it and some are curious about it but would not admittedly say it or request it in fear of being judged - I don't judge so yeah. Out of curiosity I have tried putting an object in my ass I must say It was surprisingly feeling good. The pleasure was intense.

Favorite position:

Doggie

Who I haven been with:

Married women
Single women
Divorced women
Widowed women
Black women
Coloured women
White women
Indian women
Couples
Pregnant women
Lesbian women

Top clientele:

Black and Coloured women

Kind of clients I have been with:

Cooperate women
Single moms
Bored Housewives
Sexually frustrated wives
Single women tired on unsatisfying sex with some men
Musician
Politician
Doctor
Nurse
Teacher
Professor
Lesbian wanted to experience some good dick
Rebellious girl from a rich family

Frowned upon stuff:

Been with mother and daughter.
Sisters.

Exciting stuff:

Being with couples. "I want to watch you fuck my wife." This get my adrenaline going. The idea of being watched is a turn on to me.

Public indecency stuff:

Doing something that you know you can get into trouble if found out has to be the most exciting and scariest thing ever. The contrast is satisfying.

I have done it at the toilets inside one of the malls around Sandton
I have done it at the toilets inside one of the malls around Pretoria
At the restaurant around Midrand
In the car at the parking at my complex. She comes to me to do it cause her partner would not do it with her
In the car at the parking at one of the malls around me
At the fitting room
At adult world store, but this one is not really public

Places I have not done it and would love to:

At gym. Almost done it at one of the gyms but she had cold feet at the last minute while we were at the gym.
At hiking place

What I enjoy the most:

Being watched
And watching

What I am curious about:

Pegging. The idea of being dominated by a woman.

What I have turned down:

Parents and daughter - only because the daughter was a minor.
Fucking Men. Maybe I am worried what if I liked it

Occupational Hazard and Funny experience:

Got a house call in Roodepoort at 02:00 am. She switched off her phone when I got to her gate - Imagine I drove all the way from Sandton.
Another lady at jackal creek did the same.

One fetish I have:

Watching 2 women kissing

Have I been with someone living with a disability?

She was amputated at the knee. What a beautiful woman. Very chilled, I liked her.